We all agree tribal feelings and divisions have never run so deep in this country Kenya. Many of my friends are walking around on tip toes, not sure what they are feeling. Not sure what to say to their ester while bosom buddies who happen to be from different ethnic groups. The ethnic gap between us bristles with suspicion, distrust, stereotypes, fear, anger, disappointment, hubris, all the way to all out hatred. And yet we must live together.